Have you….

So let me be clear…. I have many friends & their sexual orientation has NEVER been my concern

I have had compliments from the same sex & have been flattered but it’s not my speed

I see things on social media that I leave a like for this reason or that

The eye shadow looks spot on, the outfit is killer, or even down to a smashing pair of heels…. because let’s face it pretty is pretty- I’m not blind

I am very comfortable in who I am… & what I like!

That does not make me adventurous enough to think in a way that is just not in my make up… just not my preference… real simple

I can definitely see what taste in looks or style I think are appealing & comment accordingly for me

But to recently be asked, have you ever been with a woman for the 4th or 5th time to come out a mouth

This leads me to believe that there is an ulterior motive

I have not, will not, nor will I continue to entertain the line of conversation….

I have never judged anyone who makes that choice for themselves.

Love is love, regardless of orientation… I believe that strongly

I’m adult enough to stand my ground on my opinions & remain friends

Just because I’m not interested in that flavor or lifestyle for myself doesn’t mean I disrespect them as individuals

Nor will I allow that hinder a great friendship

In short, the meaning behind the question leaves me with these thoughts: that person wanted me to join in a group for a personal fantasy & didn’t have the courage to straight ask me but instead accused…

Hey if that’s your fantasy~ have at it… lol enjoy

The fact that I was asked did not offend me, it was the point that I answered my disinterest multiple times… are ya deaf? No thank you

If you continue to ask, that is a different perspective all together

Now being friends is one thing but disregarding my feeling is another…

The retort was: well what if I hung out with a bunch of guys that are gay, what would you think?

Ok~ should I be funny or serious? (I dont wanna piss anyone off but…)

If ya did: you’d speak clearer, dress better, clean those damn nails better, eat better & fuck for that matter probably be a better human!

Or there is the possibility you just may secretly want the D… so with that said~ Have you?